“Life is pretty simple: You do some stuff. Most fails. Some works. You do more of what works. If it works big, others quickly copy it. Then you do something else. The trick is the doing something else.” -Leonardo da Vinci
I always try to find answer to the question “what is life?” But I fail to solve this mystery. My approach towards life is very simple. I believe life is very simple; we humans make it complicated by our desires. So, why make life a complex one, by knowing that we can keep it simple? I am not sure whether this attitude will make me successful in life or not; but I can guarantee you this attitude will always keep me happy.
“All the great things are simple, and many can be expressed in a single word: freedom, justice, honor, duty, mercy, hope.” – Winston Churchill
Life’s biggest happiness lies in small and simple things. Nothing in life can give you more happiness then seeing the smile on your child’s face. Nothing in life can increase your confidence more than your wife or girlfriend’s belief in you. No one can love you more than your mother. No one can make you feel safer than your father. No one can make you feel more important than your children. These are few people, who collectively define a person’s life.
We all want to make this world a beautiful and much better place to live in; but have we ever thought that if we make our home and its surrounding beautiful; then the world will automatically be more beautiful? If we share the love we are giving to our own children with someone else’s children; then the world will be a much better place to live in. We want to own a big house; but can we guarantee that we can fill it with happiness, peace, and joy? No we can’t, as money can’t buy these things. So why make things complicated by increasing our demands from life? In a home, the number of bedrooms hardly matters, what matters most is, “We must make that thread of love which binds us all a much stronger one.” By doing so, a small home will look more beautiful than the home of our dreams. We must realize that a building or a structure becomes a home only when the people that stay in it remain connected with the bond of love, peace, and togetherness.
We always hurt ourselves by judging others, by expecting something from others. But is it necessary and warranted to judge someone else? We are not God, so how can we differentiate between good and bad? So instead of analyzing someone else, it’s better to check our compatibility with that person and move on. Every individual has his own way of living, with his own ideas, beliefs, and thoughts to live with. Why make things complex by trying to change that person?
We all want to stay happy in our lives; we all want to feel good in whatever moment we are living, we all want to smell the peace each time we breathe. And in order to make someone feel special, we try to give that person an expensive gift. But are these gifts really capable of making someone feel special? No. The best way to make someone happy and feel special is to give the gift of a smile.
“We shall never know all the good that a simple smile can do.” – Mother Teresa
We all think we are the most intelligent creatures in this world, as we are blessed with a intelligent mind. But does the mind offer an correct solution to every question of life; does the mind show us the correct path in life every time? I do not think so. The mind can sometimes be wrong; but the heart never misleads. So why do we make decisions in life difficult by prioritizing what the mind decides rather than giving importance yo what the heart feels?
So let’s not make life too complicated by dreaming too big, by hoping too much, by expecting the unexpected, and by ignoring the small things where happiness lies. Let’s make it simple by getting the basics rights, by welcoming whatever life brings us rather than getting disappointed, and by learning from failure. Let’s spread the love and smile; let’s value relationships and celebrate those small achievements life throws at us.
“Life is full of beauty. Notice it. Notice the bumble bee, the small child, and the smiling faces. Smell the rain, and feel the wind. Live your life to the fullest potential, and fight for your dreams.” – Ashley Smith
elisaruland
March 23, 2013
Reading your post was like watching the sun come out on this cloudy, gloomy day here in Atlanta. Loved it….your simplemessage inspires. Pictures were great, too!!
Arindam
March 24, 2013
Thanks Elisa for these kind and inspiring words. I am waiting to see the beauty of the cloudy days in Atlanta. 🙂 It must have been something really beautiful.Is n’t it?
pattisj
March 23, 2013
This reminded me of a song, when you said we each need to make our little spot here beautiful. http://www.lyricsfreak.com/v/vince+gill/let+there+be+peace+on+earth_20245913.html
Arindam
March 24, 2013
It’s a beautiful song, Patti. Thanks for the link.
becwillmylife
March 23, 2013
Some of my fondest memories are from when my husband and I were newlyweds and living in a very small one-bedroom apartment. Life was simple and sweet. You are right…you only need enough money to take care of your basic needs. Great post!
Arindam
March 24, 2013
Yes Becky. I too find myself comfortable when my life seems sweet and simple. I believe that’s when life shows us its beautiful side to us. Thanks a lot for taking your time to visit. Have a great day!!
greenlightlady
March 23, 2013
Arindam, I enjoyed reading your joy inspiring words and seeing your peaceful pictures! Beautiful post!
Blessings ~ Wendy
Arindam
March 24, 2013
Thanks Wendy. Great to see you again. Have a great day!! 🙂
Yaz
March 23, 2013
This is such a beautiful post, Arindam, and really lit me up. Thank you so much.
Arindam
March 24, 2013
Thanks for your kind words, Yaz!! I am glad you enjoyed reading this post of mine. 🙂
She's a Maineiac
March 24, 2013
You are so wise for someone so young. And always so positive. What you say is something most people never figure out. Materialistic things will never fill us up. People and love will. Lovely post.
Arindam
March 24, 2013
Thanks a lot Darla. Yes in such a young age, I’ve seen different shades of life. I experienced life at extreme conditions. And every time I wake up, I tell myself, “I am not going to give life a chance to take away my happiness and peace from me and let me tell you till now I still find myself happy and smiling.” 🙂
reneejohnsonwrites
March 24, 2013
Happiness is achieved from doing what makes you happy and not from any outside awards or rewards. So many of us forget about that and think that failure of a venture makes us failures. But we have not failed unless we have not tried. And then we have just missed the whole journey.
I know you are on the right path. Every step leads you to another success and/or another great learning experience, while you maintain your joy. And you have the gift of words that take us all with you. Great post Arindam!
Arindam
March 27, 2013
Thanks Renee for such inspiring words. Yes I too believe that every step I take either turns in to a success or learning experience. I never believe that there is something called failure exists in a human’s life. And then again if it exists, I do not find any credibility in it to take away a human’s happiness. It’s always a pleasure to read your words.
hemadamani
March 24, 2013
great post Arindam and you are bang on right. Being Happy is simple but it is difficult to be simple. Happiness comes in small things and yet we wait for the big things to happen in our lives believing only they will make us happy. We all run after a wrong interpretation of success and realize too late that it was just a Mirage!! keep writing!!
Arindam
March 26, 2013
Yes I could not have summarize the whole thought of this post in such few words so beautifully, just as you did here with your comment. Thanks a lot. I am glad that you liked this post.
And happy holi to you and your family!! 🙂
hemadamani
March 27, 2013
Happy Holi to you too!! 🙂
georgettesullins
March 24, 2013
Love the second paragraph above the second photo. You’re on a very good path that you will never regret. It may be lonely at times. You will never be lost as your compass is accurate.
Arindam
March 24, 2013
Thank you!!
Yes that second paragraph was something which came straight from my heart. I believe in what I said there completely. I do think at the end of the day, those are the attributes that makes us stronger, loving, caring and above all a nice human being.
earthriderjudyberman
March 25, 2013
Beautiful and profound comments, Arindam. They remind me of an American philosopher who found he was most content in nature and with the simple things in life.
“… man is rich in proportion to the amount of things he can afford to let alone,” Henry David Thoreau.
Arindam
March 26, 2013
Thank you, Judy! I loved these words of H D Thoreau. I have never heard or read this one. Thanks for sharing. 🙂
souldipper
March 25, 2013
Whatever you do, Arindam, put all of YOU into it. That way, it will be full of life and you will have lived that moment to the fullest. Then watch what that attracts!
Arindam
March 25, 2013
Yes Amy Auntie; that is what I’ve been doing all these years. I do what my heart says to me and my soul allows me. 🙂
bronxboy55
March 25, 2013
I have to agree, Arindam. For some reason, though, we have to keep reminding ourselves — and each other — that it all comes down to those few basic and simple things. If we can manage to remember that, then we can be happy in any size house, in any kind of car, and wearing any kind of clothing. Thank you for this reminder!
Arindam
March 25, 2013
Sir Charles, somehow I find myself uncomfortable when I am with people who do not know where actually there needs end and there greed starts. I know I too need a car, a house and few other things that will make my life a comfortable one, but I also realize there are some other things which I need which money can never buy for me. And I do value those needs more than all those needs which money can buy for me.
Patti Kuche
March 25, 2013
This is wonderful, thank you Arindam for the timely reminder to keep it simple and my best wishes to you for the direction you are taking in your life!
Arindam
March 25, 2013
Great to see you again here, Patti!! I am glad you liked this one and thanks a lot for all your wishes.
Maxi
March 25, 2013
Love your photos Arindam, and the words “we always hurt ourselves by judging others…”
blessings ~ maxi
Arindam
March 25, 2013
Thanks a lot Maxi!! Have a great day!!!! 🙂
Island Traveler
March 25, 2013
Well spoken Bro. Words of wisdom that uplifts the heart and spirit. I agree, “Life’s biggest happiness lies in small and simple things. Nothing in life can give you more happiness then seeing the smile on your child’s face.” Everyday, seeing my son smile and face the day with bright optimism makes me see things around me as good and full of possibilities.
Arindam
March 27, 2013
Bro my main reason for respecting you as a person and being a regular follower of your blog is just that I love your bonding with your son and family. You share such a beautiful bond with your son that inspire everyone of us. My best wishes are always with you and your wonderful family bro.
Sunshine
March 27, 2013
Life is how we make it. You are right, Arindam!. We can choose to soar or just sit idle complaining about being bored. Nicely done post with the photos and all. peace. 😀
Arindam
March 27, 2013
Thanks Sunshine for leaving such thoughtful words. Have a great week ahead dear! 🙂
Sunshine
March 28, 2013
you’re welcome, Arindam. same wishes to you about the week ahead. this week weekend we celebrate Easter. so, Happy early Easter. 🙂
Arindam
March 29, 2013
Thanks dear. 🙂 Wishing you Happy Easter!!!
We also celebrated the most colorful festival of our country “Holi” yesterday.
So it’s a good time of the year for sure. 🙂
amira
March 30, 2013
If only every human being were as compassionate and simple as you – we will have such a happy world. Continue to be the simple self. May God always bless your 🙂
Arindam
April 2, 2013
Thanks Amira for being kind to me like as always. Yes I too hope that I am not going to let life to become complex anytime soon. 🙂
Shakti Ghosal
March 31, 2013
Loved the post, Arindam. Fun and inspirational at the same time.
You say we humans make life complicated. What is it that compels us to do so? And what is complicated for you may not be so for the next person. It all boils down to what serves for us. Why should we use our own reference point to pass judgement on others?
Shakti
Arindam
May 4, 2013
Thanks a lot sir!
I agree with to a great extent that, what is complicated for me may not be so for the other person.
But I believe we humans make things complected by taking the illusion of human life like greed, demand and success as reality, where as we start ignoring the reality of life and what life actually offers us to make it beautiful like the time we spend with out dear ones or the satisfaction of helping a needy whom we may not knew or even met before.
wallflowerblossoming
April 2, 2013
I loved what you wrote! I just recently came to the same conclusions; the most profound ideas are the often the simplest ones. When humans search for happiness and meaning, they often look beyond the mark instead of accepting basic truths. I applaud your thoughts! (Love the photos, too. 🙂 )
Arindam
May 4, 2013
Thanks a lot. 🙂 I am glad you liked my words and photos.
And Yes, after a time we all realize that we get the real happiness, peace and satisfaction doing the simplest thing. It’s great to see you again in my blog.
Melissa
May 5, 2013
Thank you Arindam. It’s good to be back. I was very busy for a while, but things are calming down. Now it’s time to get back to the writing. 🙂
Arindam
May 5, 2013
Looking forward to read more from you, Melissa.
Addie
April 11, 2013
This reminds me of the video I watched on YouTube today. Based on the result of some poll, Singaporeans are the unhappiest and emotionless people in the world. A set of people came up with this interesting project in which they ask passers-by in the streets of Singapore about what makes them happy. Some just ignored, chose not to answer, or became emotionless but others took time to reply. Their answers were very interesting. Watch the vid for yourself. 🙂
Arindam
May 4, 2013
Thanks a lot Addie, for recommending this video to me. I was not aware of this poll at all. I can’t wait to hear those answers. 🙂
Mal
April 12, 2013
Love the pic of the road with the arched trees…so refreshing, Arindam! I agree we all need to be more compassionate and be mindful of others’ welfare. God bless., 🙂
Arindam
May 4, 2013
Thanks a lot for your blessing! 🙂
I knew you would agree with me on these thoughts which I shared in this post.