Let’s fall in love…. this Christmas!!

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Once in a while, Right in the middle of an ordinary life,  Love gives us a fairy tale.                                                                               - by Anonymous -

The most common word and the most difficult word to define is “LOVE”. Love of a mother for her child, love of a sister for her brother, love of a girl for her boyfriend, love of a wife for her husband all can be defined differently. It’s a different thing that, it’s very difficult to define love of a wife for her husband, as there love does not really exist. ;) You married people do not get angry. I was just joking. Yes in that relationship love also exist, but that one I am going to talk about it in some other post (But for that you have to wait till i will get married ;)).

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As a teenager, i loved watching romantic movies, as it was taking me to a different world; a world of dreams, a world of emotions, a world where everything looks different and beautiful. it may not be reality; but, Who wants to care about, if this kind of world exist or not; who wants to care about, if this kind of love story happens in real life or not; What if a person can’t kiss his girlfriend for the first time under the Eiffel Tower just like the hero did? Why we need to let France government decide, if it will permit us visa to enjoy that moment of a lifetime? Yes ,place hardly matters, only emotions matters. Why not to give a chance to a place which is an ordinary one, witness the best moment of our lives and make it the best place for us in the whole world?

In a romantic movie, when a young boy & young girl meet, then in no point of time both fall in love with each other. Although on their first meeting lots of special effects going to occur for sure; just like a wind which will blow the girls hair to make her look more beautiful, a very romantic background music bound to play at the boy’s ear which is enough to give a signal that now it’s time to fall in love (Neither i am sure who play them, nor i ever tried to know)  and if their first meeting happens during evening then moon light is going to be extra bright. Now under so many positive scenario a young boy and girl are going to fall in love . I am  not sure who is responsible for those two people falling in love; The boy, the girl, the god, all of them or none of them. One thing for sure as Sir Newton quoted once that, “Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love”.

Then the boy has to propose the girl getting down on his knees with a ring in his hand. And if he can’t afford a ring, then he can do it with a flower instead of a ring. It’s not a big deal, as in love stories only emotions matter. I know you are thinking that, now-days in love gifts also do matter. But if you are thinking that, then I am really sorry to say you that- you are with wrong person. That musical instrument which played in your ear was played by mistake. So just ignore it, and wait for the next time when all those special effects going to happen in your life again. :)

Love Story (Taylor Swift song)

Now while proposing the girl, The boy has to be on his knees, until the girl make sure that yes that boy deserves an affirmative reply from her. But the most important thing here is that boy must not wait for that girl to pull him up from ground with love. He has to get up by his own, as girls usually love boys on their knees. ;) As a girl knows that this moment,when a boy on his knees trying her to convince how much he loves her happens once in a lifetime. So a girl  will not miss this kind of a chance to prove her worth in front of a boy.  Then the love story starts.

Now moon light somehow looks more brighter and beautiful. Although i am not sure if the moon makes everything looks brighter or the love in those two young people’s eyes helps everything look brighter. Now they start giving value to valentine day more than their country’s independence day. Now the girl will bring back the boy’s belief in god.  And the most important thing going to happen is if the boy is addicted to any bad habit like smoking. Then now he has to quit it for sure. No do not think that, govt. is going to charge a person fine, if he is smoking having a girlfriend. :) Actually how can a person smoke again; when a beautiful girl having a sweet voice, with all the emotions in the world asks him to quit it? 

Love Love Love

But do these things really happen in real life?  Does it really possible to propose a girl getting on your knees, without caring about other people present there? Does it look dirty to walk with a girl in rain without an umbrella in your hand? Do we look like cartoons, while looking at the moon and imagining a girls face in it? Do we make fool of ourselves by doing these kind of stuffs? May be not; what’s bad in doing these stuffs. If someone making a person feel how much she means to him then nothing wrong in this. Why would he care about other people? You can’t wait for next birth to do these things . So what’s bad in doing these now?  You have one life to live, one life to love & one life to experience all those things which you want to experience, but you never did. So break all the rules & start falling in love :)… Let’s enjoy the beauty of love this season. Lets spread love on the special occasion of “Christmas”, the festival of love, joy & celebration… 

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32 thoughts on “Let’s fall in love…. this Christmas!!

  1. You better get married soon, I want to read that post ;) By the way I still can’t believe that I m getting married in exactly 6 months :D Of course he was down on his knees while asking me :)

    Love is such a beautiful thing, everyone should make this wonderful experience how it feels to be loved for what you are – even with all bad habits ;) For example I would not quit smoking for him & he would never expect me to. Years ago my ex-boyfriend wanted to make me choose between him & my horse. I told him he can go to hell. No one should try to change a person, accept him or her the way you meet them. A compromise can be find always, but if you want to change a person, you better search for someone else ;)

    Hugs

    • Congrats! Best wishes for your marriage! But to read that post you have to wait for few more years. :)
      Yes you are right, “A compromise can be fine always, but if you want to change a person, you better search for someone else.” But if someone asks you to quit bad habits before making any commitment, then i feel its ok. That person wants you to to quit those things, because that person care for you and worried about your health. And between your horse, your ex; i hope you made the correct choice.

      • Thanks! But oh nooooo, I can’t wait years, I m always curious! :D

        Of course I made the right choice that time. I would never dare myself for example to let my hubby to be make a choice between me & football. And believe me, I hate football. But he loves it and so I have to deal with it cause I love him and want him to be happy :)

      • That’s really great. You are an intelligent person for sure.
        Lastly, i can’t guarantee you that, you are going to read that post very soon. :) Still nothing can be predicted before. Who knows, it may also come before my prediction.

  2. Hi,
    I have been happily married for many, many, years now, and yes Hubby got down on one knee and proposed, it does make one feel special. :)
    We have also walked in the rain without umbrellas, but that is pretty common here in OZ, as it does get very hot, and the feel of light rain helps you cool down a bit.
    I hope when the time comes you will find the right Lady, and be very happy for a long, long time. :D

    • Then you have experienced all these things before. Great :)
      And yes it’s also pretty hot here, but only problem is that here very little chance of rain falling lightly. It’s always either no rain or heavy rain. :) And not people here prefer to walk without an umbrella that to be with a lady. Still some do! :)
      Thanks for the beautiful wish, till now i am only finding left ladies :), lets hope right one will come soon.

    • Kim welcome to my blog. And thank you for reading it and giving your comment on it.

      This is one funniest comment. :) Thank god you recognized that it is Taylor Swift. And the boy reminds you of whom? i really want to know that.

  3. My friend, very thoughtfully written as you do so well! I fell in love with my wife when I first saw her. I proposed one month later … still hard to believe. Got married six months later. That was July 1986!! Nothing wrong with romance, my friend!! All the best to you in love, and life Arindam! :)

    • Thanks a lot Mj!! :)
      yes i also believe that their is nothing wrong in romance. After reading a couple of lines about the story of you and your wives, i hope you will write a post about that one. It will be great to read that one. Waiting for that one Mj!

      As always it’s my pleasure to see you in my blog.

  4. When you find the right person, she will be lucky indeed. I can only imagine the attention she will get as well as the poetry. Ah, Amore. By the way, I’ve been working on my blogroll and you are there as a special Christmas gift.

    • Renee, i am really happy seeing you after a long time. I was afraid that might be you did n’t remember me any more. :)
      Thanks a lot for the Christmas gift! you are the first and last person who gift me something for Christmas. :)
      And lastly i am not sure if that right person will get the poetry from me… as i am really bad at that one. :)

  5. Don’t you wish life had just a little more mystery and fantasy? Love is hard to define. I think it’s because it changes and grows. I love my husband, but differently than I did when he was my boyfriend or fiance. Life changes, and love has to change with it, or it dies.
    But we have to keep the romance alive…and this is what your post does for me: it lets me know that romance isn’t dead, and we shouldn’t let life’s worries or busy schedules choke it out. Thank you and Merry Christmas.

    • I am glad that this post spoke to you in such a way. And you are so right, Life changes. love has to change with it or it dies. May be that’s what maturity is all about. Each person must realize this.
      Thanks a lot for the visit and the beautiful comment you gave on this one.
      Merry Christmas to you too. :)

  6. “You have one life to live, one life to love & one life to experience all those things which you want to experience, but you never did. So break all the rules & start falling in love … Let’s enjoy the beauty of love this season. Lets spread love on the special occasion of “Christmas”, the festival of love, joy & celebration… ” Two thumbs up!!! That came out straight from your heart and love is all over the air. Love is what sustains us, nurture us, makes us do the impossible. It is that one thing that keeps us hopeful. It makes waking up each morning worth waiting. Love is what makes us feel human with feelings and compassion. I too wish to celebrate it with everyone who wish embrace love and its many splendor things. Wishing you and your family all love and blessings…

    • Thanks a lot bro :)
      Thanks for passing on the love through this comment. Yes love is the only thing that keeps us hopeful. Everything you wrote are so true and i am going to say that it came straight from your heart for sure. As a human love is the only thing we can give and we can get as much as we can.
      Wishing you and your family all love, blessing and happiness!!

  7. Very good post indeed Arindam. And you are so right. When it comes to love, and I’m speaking of the husband/wife type of love, you get one shot. There are no do-overs, no second chances, and no hitting the “reset” button. As you said, you’ve got one life.

    To me there are no rules of love. One must love as they only know how to love. If they do that, they’ll never fail.

    Great work again. And congrats on another award!

    • Thanks a lot Joe. :)
      I wish, you must write a post on husband/wife type of love, as i have no experience about that one. What’s your say on this!
      And yes “There are no do-overs, no second chances, and no hitting the “reset” button.”
      It’s a superb statement Joe.
      As always thanks a lot for the visit. I do not need to say that it’s always my pleasure to see you in my blog. :)

  8. I think it’s so sweet that you used to enjoy watching romantic movies! And yes, the moon and wind and sun always seem to cooperate peacefully at exactly the right times.

    Above all else, when it comes to love, is that nothing else matters. A mother’s love for her children. A boy’s love for his girlfriend — you hit the nail on the head with this line, “If someone making a person feel how much she means to him then nothing wrong in this.” I couldn’t agree more.

    It’s not about what the world as a whole is thinking, it’s all about how much of an effect you are having, right at the moment, on the happiness of someone you love. Great post.

    • Thanks a lot Melissa :)
      Yes i also always wonder, how the moon, the wind, the sun, the rain be so- operative? :) May be people consider them as blessings of god. As always, it feels great to read your comments.

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